mindset

Do you ever feel like the year disappears before you’ve had a chance to catch your breath? I hear this a lot from people I coach. The Guardian recently published an article by Miriam Frankel that dives into why time seems to speed up and how we can change that. It got me thinking about the connection between our perception of time and the routines or pressures we face daily. I want to share some practical ideas inspired by the article—and my own experience as a coach—on how to feel more present and in control of your time. If this resonates, I’d love for you to join my personal development community, where we talk about these kinds of challenges and find ways to move forward together. What Stood Out to Me: The article explains that our perception of time is shaped by our routines and the memories we create. New or meaningful experiences feel longer when we look back on them, while repetitive routines make time blur together. Miriam Frankel highlights studies showing that the less variety in our daily lives, the faster the years seem to fly by. This is something I see in my work all the time. People often feel stuck, not because they’re doing nothing, but because they’re doing the same thing over and over. Adding novelty or reflection to your day can completely change how you experience time—and your sense of accomplishment. 8 Ways to Take Back Control of Your Time: 1️⃣ Shake Things Up When every day feels the same, time blends together. Do something small but different—take a new route to work, cook a recipe you’ve never tried, or say yes to an invitation you’d normally turn down. 2️⃣ Explore New Places You don’t need a big trip to create memorable moments. Visit a neighborhood you’ve never been to, walk a different path in the park, or even rearrange your workspace. Change helps your brain pay attention. 3️⃣ Pay Attention It’s easy to rush through the day without noticing what’s happening around you. Take a moment to really look at the sky, listen to the sounds in your home, or enjoy the feeling of warm coffee in your hands. 4️⃣ Celebrate What You’ve Done Instead of making endless to-do lists, start keeping “done” lists. At the end of the day, write down three things you’re proud of finishing—even if it’s just sending an email you’ve been avoiding. 5️⃣ Spend Time Outside There’s something about being in nature that helps you feel grounded. Go for a walk, sit by a tree, or watch birds. Even a few minutes can make a difference. 6️⃣ Do Things That Matter to You Focus on activities that feel meaningful, whether that’s learning something new, spending time with people you care about, or getting lost in a good book. 7️⃣ Reflect on Your Day Keeping a journal, even for five minutes, helps you remember what stood out. Write about one thing that made you smile or something new you noticed. 8️⃣ Put the Phone Down Scrolling social media often leaves us feeling like time disappeared with nothing to show for it. Try swapping 10 minutes of scrolling for something active—like doodling, stretching, or just staring out the window and letting your mind wander. Why This Matters: The more intentional you are with how you spend your time, the longer and more satisfying your days will feel. Life doesn’t have to rush by. If you’re looking for more ideas and support, follow me and join my online community. We’ll figure it out together. Notice: JavaScript is required for this content.